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Kenny DAmica's avatar

A great post. People look at me strangely when I say that one reason I want kids is that I want to one day be a grandfather with many grandchildren. I don’t think most people realizing that you need to plan that far in advance for the life you want.

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Henry Kenyon's avatar

Lovely. I used to believe the "you have to be happy alone first" idea; now I don't, but until reading this I hadn't noticed anything odd about the "a relationship won't fix you" thing. Now you mention it, why would being dissatisfied be wrong?

Fortunately for me, some instinct took over and 'made me' take risks to find my wife. Married for five years, first child on the way - I'm very glad I didn't stop to think too much!

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